I've been mated for 4 eld to a wonderful, doting man. While I hit serviceable my coefficient at a rattling reasonable 110 lbs since we've been married, my economise has gained 25-30 lbs since then, and has basically "let himself go." He keeps informing me that I am likewise skinny and should acquire weight. I'm not trusty if he's informing me that because he feels base to me physically, or if he rattling thinks I'm underweight.
The difficulty is, we both become from families where pretty such every the women are obese, so the definition of "normal sized" is rattling skewed. Both my mom and my MIL think that a "good, healthy weight" is something like 140 lbs.
Here's the thing, I used to matter near to 200 lbs, and while I was losing people in my family kept informing me not to lose likewise such weight, etc. Now that I am anorectic and at the point where I actually like my body, I am existence told by my economise he thinks I'd be "hotter' if I was fatter.
I don't rattling intend it! Should I be worried most what he's saying? Should I give in and acquire whatever coefficient so HE'LL be happy? It's so frustrating... some ideas or thoughts?
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